Boyfriend still has a dating profile
If he’s hesitating because he’s concerned about commitment, this approach could scare him off.
In some cases, this could cause what he saw as a healthy, budding relationship to end abruptly.
I wish these readers had written me beforehand because this is often the worst approach to take (at least from this guy’s point-of-view). I do have some advice but let’s first look at one reader’s email and user this as an example for better understanding where you stand with your guy: I have been dating a man I met on for about 6 weeks – we go out regularly and he is always quick to make plans with me.
We have a great time together and he calls every night to chat or say goodnight.
Men are slower to commit and many also need their ego “stroked”.
First off let me say that many men keep their profiles active even though they are interested in the woman they are regularly dating.If instead you jump to conclusions, you risk introducing anger and defensiveness, both of which are notorious for making the truth both harder to express and harder to detect.Saying you "know" someone is not cheating is also a mistake, because it, too, is a step toward closing your mind to negative information.I’ve had several readers write me they argued with the man they were dating to ask if I thought they had made the right choice.I even had one reader who had gave the man a hard time the day after their first date when his profile was still up.